Friday, June 02, 2006

FYI..in case anyone still stops by lol

First of all.....HI!

Just wanted to drop a note for any of you that may still drop by, which may be wishful thinking.

I am not dead, I haven’t run away from home (though the thought has crossed my mind a couple times lol), and I haven’t forgotten I have this Blog thing.

HMMMM….how to put this? Let’s go with this…..I have been and am still working on a complete mental, somewhat physical, and attitude overhaul. NO, this does not mean I am trying to “find myself”. PLEASE. Nor does it mean I am hitting the gym….LOL not that kind of physical. Just dealing and processing issues relating to family, children, personal and health (go figure).

Please, I am not sharing for pity or sympathy comments. I just wanted to let anyone that is still coming by know I sure have not forgotten about any of you. I will be back….

Morgan



Sunday, April 16, 2006

A Bit Of Freedom

I must first admit I was sad to see my son take his first trip out of town without me. Even if it was just to K.C. for Friday and Saturday. Plus, my guardian son has been with his Mom since Wednesday. Add that all up and I had a weekend with NO TEENAGERS!! This left me with time to do what I wanted to do and without having to worry about being at home a specific time. I almost didn't know what the hell to. ha ha This did not last long. Friday night I had a couple of old friends over. We partied it up and watched a couple movies until about 1:30 a.m. This was just the warm up for tonight!

Tonight I made plans with a friend I had not hung out with in months. We started by partying a bit at her house, then went down to the Old Market for a few drinks, and ended up back at her house. Of course, as usual, word had spread that we hanging out so a small group gathered. The music was blasting, the party was on. Her boyfriend even brought his 120lb lab. What a beast that dog is.

Before I knew it was after 2 a.m. and my son had been home awhile and his friends had gathered at our place to watch a movie. Now he wanted to know when I WOULD BE HOME! HA HA HA So, since things were kinda of winding down I decided to take my leave and come home to see my son and get some sleep.

It was a great weekend. I really needed to get out and party it up with friends. I had a great time. That is definitely something I need to a lot more often!

Time to fly...try to sleep (not an easy feat for me lately).

Morgan



Friday, March 24, 2006

Slacking...

And it does seem to be somewhat of a trend around these parts. Is almost everyone in a journal update slump? The only things going on around here seem to be related to medical issues. LOL My son messed up his rotator cuff and the muscle tissue in his right shoulder, my sister needs surgery, and my ex-husband just had surgery. That just makes me nervous. I am usually the one under the knife. LMAO
I am on the count down to Tan's return home from the middle east. We are at about 40 days and counting till he is back here in the states! YIPPEEEE!
The boys are down to the last few weeks of their junior year in high school. CRAP! Then comes all the things we have to do for their senior year. DAMN, am I ready for that?Austin got a new car. His last one blew TWO engines. The second one was not his fault. The new one is a red, and I mean RED, VW Gulf hatchback turbo. It is a really cute car. This one will last him until he graduates college, at least it damn well better. ha ha I must admit he does baby this one.
I did see a couple of pretty good movies I received through Netflix. Two for the Money was really good but I like both Matthew McConaughey and Al Pacino. The other was Prime with Uma Thurman.
Anyway, everyone have a great weekend and all that...


Time for me to fly,

Morgan



Wednesday, March 01, 2006

Time Flies

Wow! I hadn't realized it had been so long since last my entry. It has now been a little over a month since Tan left for the desert. I get an email from him almost everyday, except for those couple of times he emailed and I never received them. LOL I have also received a couple pictures. Even forwarded pictures of the boxer puppies from his female that is staying with his parents in South Dakota. They are so damn cute! It finally really hit me, just two days ago, that I am really starting to miss him.

On to other news. I had a dentist from hell visit. In my book every visit to him is one from hell. I have this HUGE anxiety thing about the dentist. I can handle the cleanings. This time, it seems, he needed to extract a back molar. Luck me! It was a BITCH! The molar broke into pieces. In the process of that excruciating process the demon man managed somehow to dislodge a jaw bone fragment. This fragment then began working its way up my gum into the area next to the spot where the molar had been. BIG OUCHIE!! Of course, the Dr. Of Doom decided to "let it work its way out." Meanwhile, I was in big time pain clear up my jaw line. Last night I could it no more. So, I grabbed tweezers, a flashlight, and began the process of getting that fragment the hell of there. After about 15 minutes it came out! Now, I just have a different type of pain. LOL So, I will be calling him back today. SHIT! Here's to you Dr! LOL
It seems like it is always something . If not with me than with one of the boys.

I also got the "joy" of going with my brother to help him a new a computer. The old one was a piece a crap. He knows next to nothing about computers. I am having to teach him EVERYTHING. Well, wait, I have already taught him some things so that isn't entirely true. He should be happy with the one we picked out. It will do what they need it to. Then, we hooked it all up, got it set up to his DSL, set up his MSN account, updated all of his crap, and gave him a quick course of what he needed to know. Now, it will be lessons by phone for the simple things until a big question comes up that I will have to go back over and show him. AH hell, what are little sisters for?

Well, I am going to go enjoy the quiet before I have to get the troops up for school.
Have a good one everyone!

Time to fly,

Morgan



Wednesday, February 01, 2006

New and unexciting

Well, lets see the new and unexciting news from these parts…

Another birthday has come and gone. It was bittersweet this year though. A week later Tan left for the desert. I have no idea exactly where, just that he is “nine hours in my future”. So, for the next few months it will be communication by email and maybe the occasional two minute phone call. Those are usually going to be used to call his daughters though, understandably. I really don’t have much else to say on this topic. I don’t know what else TO say.

Other generic matters..the boy’s are plugging along in school. Spring sports have started. Baseball for Austin and soccer for Kenny. Should prove to make for a busy sports season. I am just hoping Austin keeps his grades up and that I can kick Kenny in the ass enough times so that he raises a couple of his core classes lol.

I have also started to build my DVD collection with all of my favorites. I sure am learning a lot about my taste in movies. I never really payed attention too much before. I like a lot of different genres but realize there are only certain ones I would watch over and over. Maybe everyone is like that? I am picky about what movies I will buy though. That much I know for sure. Any suggestions for good action flicks let me know though would be appreciated.

Well, enough babbling, rambling on about nothing from me for now.

Time to fly,


Mo



Tuesday, January 10, 2006

Sit in

This may be my longest entry yet. Long, but, I think interesting if not entertaining. OKAY..
No, it wasn't me. It was the boys! Thanks to the school district deciding, after YEARS, to enforce a handbook dress code. Trust me on the years thing I went to school in this district LOL. Let me explain.

Last week, after returning from Christmas break, I receive a phone call from the Dean of Students. He is informing me Austin needs to come home and change his jeans. Yes, that is correct, his jeans. He has a hole a distress mark in leg. The dean explains that in November annoucements were made that after break the dress code would be enforced. No clothes looking "soiled, ragged, torn...". So, for the moment, I just say fine you might as well send Kenny home as well, he is wearing similar jeans.

Now, my biggest gripe is why in the hell way back in November, when these "annoucements" were made to the student body didn't someone send letters or SOMETHING home to parents. It would of been real nice to know to this information before I spent money on birthday/Christmas clothes for school.

These distressed/destroyed jeans are what the kids are wearing. Hell, not just the kids/teens. Adults wear them also. I do...Kenzy does. I am sure some of you have a pair or two. Whether you bought them that way or they just came to be that way. I am not saying the holes need to be inappropriate. I wouldn't send the boys to school with holes showing stuff that does not need to be showing LOL. But, shit come on! A worn spot on the back pocket? A frayed hem? That is just ridiculous.

So, the student body rallied together to let the central office and school administration know how they felt about all this. On Friday of last week around 100+ kids wore jeans with holes. Of course, the ones that were caught at the door were turned away and made to change. The others were promptly sent home to change or sent to ISS (in school suspension). The local news actually did a small spot on the whole thing!

Fast forward to Monday (yesterday). Well, I knew Sunday night my two would be involved. They wanted to let their opinion be heard, it could be worse. It was going to be peaceful, so why not? Anyway, the students were going to be meeting at the school flagpole right in front of of the building at 7:30 a.m. Monday morning. News channel, and police of course LOL) at the ready. The turn out was good surprisingly, 200+ students ended up showing along with a couple mothers. They did a small "protest" about how they should be able to wear to the jeans as long as they are not distracting. That is what the handbook states. Nothing distracting. (that brings up another question for me....aren't the Gothic kids appearance distracting??)

Around 8 a.m they moved everyone in the commons area. This is where the "sit in" took place". My boys, their first sit in. SIGH LMAO Believing in a cause. Kenny called one of the local radio stations and was un on air live, which was replayed this morning. The sit in lasted until around noon. The boys showed up here around 11:30 to fill Kenzy and I in on all the details and gossip going around. One mother decided to "pray for the holes" before the school made her leave the building. One other mother was thrown out and her student suspended for calling a dean a Nazi. Now, that is carrying it too far.

In the end, they gave the students a compromise from their of "demands". The holes cannot be high upon the thighs, show skin, or be ragged. The ones that are manufactured with the reinforced backs are ok. I hear a letter will be drafted and sent out to homes within the week. WOW AMAZING!

I was just proud that the boys stood up for something they believed in. They felt their rights of freedom were being infringed upon. They handled it in a peaceful, organized manner. At least the boys are speaking up for something they belive in when they feel their rights to express are being stepped upon. It could be something so much worse. I know this may seem so silly to some, if not all of you, but the boys are very happy of themselves and I am also. Not necessarily that the students can wear these jeans, but for the fact of the experience. They stood up for themselves in face against the odds. For that, I am proud!

I have told them they will always have rules and regs to live by. That is just life. But, an experience like this can never hurt anyone. I feel it strengthens character and self-esteem, among other things.

I am a proud Mom.

Time to fly,

Morgan



Amendment: Here is the article from the paper, sorry it is long but it is a great article. So worth reading. It is not accessible through my comments due to the way the paper is set up. They make you sign up inorder to read the online their stuff!


Rainbow Rowell: You sent my kid home for what?

BY RAINBOW ROWELL


WORLD-HERALD COLUMNIST

If my kid got sent home from school for wearing ripped jeans, I would send him right to his room . . .
So he wouldn't hear me go ballistic on his principal.
Are you serious, Bellevue East? Sending students home because their frayed jeans are disrupting class?
I'll tell you what's more disrupting to class: sending students home.
Especially for something as innocuous as wearing holey jeans.
Send my kid home if he's picking fights or packing heat. Send him home to change if he's wearing something vulgar or revealing.
Send him home if he's not following the rules . . .
But don't make rules just for the sake of having rules.
School officials say the rips and tears are distracting and an obstacle to order and discipline . . . How is that possibly true?
Who in 2006 is distracted by frayed jeans? Who in 1996 or 1986 or 1976?
You'd have to go pretty far back to find someone who would be scandalized by a ripped knee. (I keep picturing an over-the-top square in a "Monkees" episode. The kind of character who calls everybody, "Darn dirty hippies.")
You could argue that rips in the underwear region are distracting. Here's a defensible rule: No holes near your unmentionables.
That's actually close to the rule proposed by Bellevue East students. About 200 skipped class Monday to demand a less restrictive dress code, one that would ban tears only above the skirt line.
I'm pretty impressed by Bellevue East students. I can't imagine 200 kids at my high school being organized enough to stage a protest and actually following through with it.
The kids who skipped class at Bellevue East are kids who normally go to class. Who care about getting in trouble. That shows how important this is to them.
What is more important to a teenager than freedom of expression?
At 16, 17, you feel like an adult, but you're still treated like a child. You follow everyone else's rules all day long.
You treasure the decisions that are mostly your own, what you wear, what music you listen to. That's how you express yourself. It's who you are.
Public schools should limit that expression as little as possible - only when a kid is actually causing a problem.
These kids' jeans aren't causing problems. Did you see the two girls who ended up on the front page of Friday afternoon's World-Herald after their ripped jeans got them sent home? They looked clean, healthy and athletic. Fashionable, but not fashion victims.
If I were raising a daughter, I would love for her to dress that comfortably modest, in ripped jeans and a soccer T-shirt layered over a long-sleeved shirt.
In this ultra low-rise world, any girl who finds jeans that don't leave a four-inch gap between her waistband and her shirtwaist should be applauded - not sent home.
I keep trying to guess what secret reason Bellevue East might have to suddenly start enforcing a ripped jeans rule that's been on the books for years. Is there some Bellevue street gang that identifies itself with ripped jeans? (In my high school, the gang members wore the nicest jeans. Never ripped, always ironed.)
There has to be a reason. You can't tell an 18-year-old to obey the rules just because you said so. Because you're the boss.
Listen here, Buster, them's the rules and you'll obey 'em and you'll like it. Or else.
That isn't speaking with authority. That's just being a bully.


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Thursday, January 05, 2006

HOW ABOUT

THEM LONGHORNS!


That was one helluva game last night and for those of you that missed it....DAMN you missed out! Right down to the last 19 seconds. This not only tickles me pink to my very core because, of course, I live in Nebraska and am a Texas fan..lol but also the Horns hadn't won a national championship in like forever (no need to put down the scary numbers) . The Husker fans aren't too fond of the Longhorns...eh wonder why?

It is bittersweet that the 34-0 USC winning streak had to come to an end. Just glad the Horns were the ones that could end it!

College World Series Champs last summer, now the Rose Bowl to be National Champions, whats next? Well, hell, need to keep going until we can roll back around to baseball season again!


Time to fly,
Morgan (a very happy Morgan)